“Why Are You Saying This Out of Nowhere?” – A Short Script for Autistic People to Decrease Misunderstandings
“Why are you saying this out of nowhere?” This script is something autistic people can use when a conversation goes wrong.
Jaime A. Heidel - The Articulate Autistic
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Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published August 28, 2020 · Last modified September 8, 2020
“Why are you saying this out of nowhere?” This script is something autistic people can use when a conversation goes wrong.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Parent & Child Communication / Reprinted Articles
by jaimeaheidel · Published August 20, 2020
What does selective mutism or going non-verbal look like for an autistic person? This mom gives a powerful analogy to help clear up scary misunderstandings.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published August 18, 2020 · Last modified July 28, 2025
Autistic people aren’t selfish, we just process the world differently. Learn about survival mode and how autistic people experience the world.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published August 14, 2020 · Last modified July 28, 2025
Autistic people are not selfish, we just speak a different neurological language. Allow me to translate.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions
by jaimeaheidel · Published August 7, 2020 · Last modified January 11, 2026
When an autistic person asks a question, we are looking for an answer. That’s it. There is no other reason. Please understand this.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Parent & Child Communication / Questions & Answers
by jaimeaheidel · Published July 25, 2020 · Last modified December 19, 2020
Why does your autistic loved one blurt out words at the most inopportune times? We don’t see it that way. We’re not rude, we’re trying not to forget!
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published July 25, 2020 · Last modified March 5, 2025
Suppressing your child’s natural emotions can do serious psychological harm. Whether your child is autistic or neurotypical, redirect emotions instead.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Parent & Child Communication / Questions & Answers / Reprinted Articles / Trauma & PTSD
by jaimeaheidel · Published July 12, 2020 · Last modified July 17, 2020
Why do autistic and neurotypical people confuse each other so much when trying to interact? Because we are speaking two different social languages, and neither of them are wrong!
Autistic Characteristics / Parent & Child Communication
by Lisa Martin · Published July 1, 2020 · Last modified July 12, 2020
Stimming is a natural part of autistic self-expression and sensory regulation. Stifling stimming can cause severe distress and psychological damage.
Autistic Characteristics / Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Parent & Child Communication
by jaimeaheidel · Published June 25, 2020 · Last modified July 30, 2020
Why do autistic people ask “why” so frequently? When an autistic person asks “why”, it’s to gather information and understand our world. This is not rudeness or questioning authority, this is necessary for us to achieve independence.
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