The Guileless Stalker – How to Understand and Handle an Autistic Person Seeking Closure
During the conversation, the autistic person will focus on your words and take them literally; all other communication will be missed.
Communicate more effectively with the autistic people in your life
Autistic Characteristics / Common Misconceptions / Dating & Relationships / Trauma & PTSD
by jaimeaheidel · Published September 8, 2026
During the conversation, the autistic person will focus on your words and take them literally; all other communication will be missed.
Neurotypical people often come into the argument as though the autistic person knows full well what they’ve done. The autistic person, however, is completely taken aback that they’re being accused of something.
When you give your autistic employee a new assignment, instead of saying “do this” as if they already have all of the information, sit with them and elaborate on your expectations.
If you are communicating distress in mostly nonverbal ways, there is a real chance we do not understand that anything serious is wrong yet.
Jaime A. Heidel – The Articulate Autistic
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Better Communication / Common Misconceptions / Parent & Child Communication / Trauma & PTSD
by jaimeaheidel · Published July 21, 2026
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